After the infamous “opening line. which is hopefully new and unique (and not, haven’t I seen you somewhere before? – there are three killer dating closing techniques, which nearly all guys will brag about using as their own.

These not so known about killer dating closing techniques are 1) charm and flattery, 2) hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and 3) alpha male seduction.

Many men will use the same technique most of the time.  Hey, it worked before, it should work again  right?  However, I’m telling you this; you should vary your technique according to what you perceive is the best choice with a particular woman. Not all women are alike, therefore, not all of them will fall for the same technique.

Charm and flattery as a technique for closing in on a date is the one most used by guys. A hopefully sincere man who uses flattery and charm will start out his introduction to a woman by flattering and complimenting her (my you have nice eyes!); take her to fine restaurants and luxurious places; spend a great deal of money on her (where’s this guy again?), and hope she will respond with affection romance, and . . .

For some women, however, this killer dating closing technique for guys is fairly see-through, and doesn’t rate highly with them. While flattering at first, smart women are going to see this as an obvious pick-up ploy. However, it will work for the women who wants nothing more from a relationship than to be wined and dined, and those who are very young and very naive. So, if you use this technique, be prepared to keep it up, or she’ll leave very quickly!

Hypnosis such as NLP is one of the killer dating closing techniques for guys that many men try. There are books, sites, tapes and CDs that teach this method, and while it might work, it only does if the man who is learning and applying the technique already is self confident enough that he believes he can pull it off.

Unfortunately, many guys that try this as one of their killer dating closing techniques are trying to make themselves into something they are not – suave, sophisticated and self assured. So, their hypnosis / NLP attempt to generate attraction and sexual excitement in women doesn’t work well, and wouldn’t work more than once.

Another of the three time-honored killer dating closing techniques for guys is called the alpha male method of seduction. This method is not anything that is learned or taught really, it’s not a script or the result of lessons. It is simply a belief that you are a man who is strong, good, attractive and worthy of the attention of the woman of your choice. A man who believes in himself will exude the kind of self assurance that women find attractive. It’s that simple. Of course, it can be taken to obnoxious or narcissistic extremes, and that may get you the first date but not much after that. In general, however, what this alpha male killer dating technique says is that, for guys who believe in themselves and what they have to offer a mate, there will be at least one woman who will realize that and become his life partner.

See, you don’t really need flattery (although a little sure helps), and definitely not hypnosis (unless you’re getting desperate, or in the mood for a little excitement for once). Just be confident in yourself ad your abilities, and the world will work with you and your beautiful new partner.

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